Cope or Heal?
After years of watching people find temporary relief through the strength of willpower or changing thought processes, research now shows that ACEs (Adverse Childhood Experiences) impact the Window of Tolerance of our Nervous System and are passed from one generation to the next. The result can produce complex post-traumatic stress symptoms impacting our nervous system. Common symptoms include anxiety, depression, obsessions, compulsions and other brain-related results of psychological injury.
We are all wounded in some way at some time in our life. As we progress to adulthood, those wounds get triggered and impact our relationships with others, our view of self, and also impacts our spirituality.
We eventually come to a place where we realize that counseling has to look different. That is why 1 Identity Counseling focuses on healing those wounds and moving toward wholeness. We can learn to be aware of why we react, recognizing that the situation in front of us is not the real problem.
Counseling can provide ways to heal and make sense of the underlying reasons we need to cope instead of focusing on changed behavior. The reality is that wholeness essentially takes care of the behavior by addressing the underlying ’cause’ or ‘influence’ of the behavior.